I was told i need a moderator to give me meber status. I this is true? Are there any out there that can do this for me. Thank you for your help.

You should have every right as a registered user; you're just in a "new member" group. Are you being prevented from doing something a normal member would be able to do?

i cant use an avatar, and am not allowed to sucribe as a registed user. I joined the same time as a friend, hcrelms that is, and he has meber status. Not understaning how this works, and if i try to check my profile page it says i dont have access or try to donate i get blank screen

i can now use avatar, but still can subscribe or donate or check profiles. Although i am making progress.