Well I meant no offense. All I'm saying is a picture of anything shouldn't be of any concern. That's why I can look and not worry about any fidelity of whatever kind.

It's not pictures of other women that concerns my wife, it's other "jokes" that people post. You ever been goatse'd when your wife was looking at the screen?

The number 1 reason why ministers completely lose their ministry and can never get a job in the field again is pornography. This is not the "reason" why I don't want to look, even at just a sketchy picture, but it is a true concern. I took no offense to what you said, I just felt the need to explain.

I had picked up on a little of your sensibilities for lack of a better word in your explanation. I don't want to offend those sensibilities so to speak but at the same time don't want to walk on eggshells on account of them. Nonetheless I'm glad there was no offense taken.

You don't need to walk on eggshells, just no sketchy pics sans warnings =]

I had to look this up. Thanks to urban dictionary I wasn't goatse'd myself. I guess I could see where that might cause some explanation to the wife. Mine would get a good laugh out of the whole thing.

Mine as well. But I can respect my friend's sensibilities. And even though I would rarely if ever post anything publicly of questionable content, if I am ever inclined to do so in the future, I promise that it will be accompanied by some kind of warning.

However the picture that launched this topic would not register as questionable to me. I have seen album covers FAR more risque than that.

Different people have different ideas as to what "Cheating" is. I have a friend who nearly got divorced from his wife because he was looking at internet porn on occasion. Dngergrrl would care less if I were doing that as long as it wasn't something like kiddie porn or something equally wrong. I don't think any one definition of cheating is either correct or incorrect. Most wives have the opinion of not caring where you get your apetite as long as you eat at home, but if that is what works for Chi and his wife, then whatever.

I wasn't quite so lucky the time a certain wisenheimer from our venue sent me a file that I opened, thinking it was something about Heroclix, and it turned out to be an image of my favorite female wrestler (gulp), Mickie James, looking quite bare.

What I should mention is that our one computer is in the living room and my wife was sitting there, watching TV, until the monitor screen snared her attention.

Boys, there may be myths, fables and legends...but then there is the story of Mrs. Soxolas and the Enchanted Frying Pan, a weapon that is mighty to behold. Wielding that, a woman has no need to feel more secure.

Besides, this is my second marriage. I'm running out of women who'd put up with the likes of me.

So, a quick sidenote from the subject of cheating, dirty pictures/links, and frying pans...

I just put up a new sale thread. It has what I have available for sale and at the bottom has a list of generics that I want more of and how much they are worth to me in a trade/sale combo deal:

http://www.hcrealms.com/forum/showth...99#post5461499

This is so very true. Different cultures and people have different interpretations of what cheating is. Every relationship is different and each relationship has parameters that people operate under. I've been the victim of cheating on more than one occasion...each time it was due to the internet. Maybe it's because of this, I have never been one to be interested in porn (internet, dvd, etc) and I'm not a fan of it when the person I'm in a relationship with is looking at porn.

Fortunately, I'm pretty much a rockstar so there is no need for porn in my relationship.

That's what I keep telling myself.

What is this?! Do I now have a reputation?

Let me share, I work up and down the beach and see the baggers in their bikinis every day and I think- Hey, that bikini probably covers less than their underwear. They would never run around the strip in their underwear and then I move on to thoughts of my Heroclix team for the weekend. Unfortunately, it keeps me more unintersted in bikini-clad women than I should be because now it seems wrong. *sigh*

While I'm at it...

Good looking lady but my eyes were drawn pretty quick to the globe by her feet! That is a pretty cool globe; I would love to have a globe on a floor stand in my house! I keep looking when we go to flea markets but I haven't found the right one yet. Needless to say, I'm not sure that was intended to be the focus of my attention.

There was a globe?

I was wondering the same thing...

Bo and Luke Duke live on a farm but have you ever seen any farm work done? I'm sitting here doing work through a few episodes yet never see any farm work.

Yes Dog and Suga, there is a farm behind Daisy.