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Nice try, but you and I both know that the Moe in this analogy is those of you posting who refuse to live and let live and choose to continue to complain about resources after the majority of the posters here who DON'T have a chip on their shoulders have agreed that if you have a problem with resources, you should talk to your local Judge so you don't have to deal with them.
Usually, in a civil discussion, if two sides have come to an agreement about their particular disagreement, both parties move on and discuss the next subject on the agenda. That's why I've been chastising you for continuing.
I mean look around the last two pages. You're sitting here still stamping your feet about resources while about 3-4 other people are coming to the conclusion that it seems self proclaimed "casual players" seem to be the most militant and belligerent people about their casualness.
I'm so confused. You HAVE to be confusing me with someone else, or you're just not reading my posts correctly, because I've done nothing of the sort. And I've already stated before in other threads that I see way more hostility in HeroClix coming from people that don't build competitively than those that do. This isn't a new revelation for me.
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So really, this discussion is no longer about broken resources. It's evolved into how unreasonable the anti-resource camp has become by insulting those who play resources and demanding that opposing opinions stop being able to play resources because of how unfair they are.
So don't mind me, feel free to continue to complain. It only makes you look worse by comparison since you can't let go.
Dude, just chill out. You have been one of the most unreasonable and insulting people in the thread, and are also reading a whole lot into posts that's not actually there. I really recommend just stepping back for a day or so, clearing your head, and then coming back. I don't see this to be rude, but as sincere advice, since I've found it useful to do the same thing when I get too involved in a thread and start taking things more personally than I should.
Quote : Originally Posted by Carabas
That fixes the immediate problem, but not the far larger problem of the game becoming increasingly imbalanced and less like Heroclix with each new set that comes out.
We used to have things like maps and line of sight that mattered, and no amount of talking to the local venue is going to fix some of the latest insanities game design has unleashed.
Technically, we've never had line of sight, only line of fire.
Quote : Originally Posted by landoman
I don't believe there are 2 real sides anyhow. Almost everyone I've seen falls into an area between competitive and comic, and outside of big tournaments I'm sure there are mostly 'grey' players.
Yep.
Quote : Originally Posted by clameire
You still don't get it. Like the rest of your kind.
Casual players don't want to "win" in the sense you (and your kind) like to "win".
We want a fair fight. Winning or loosing matters not. We want to stand a chance, have fun, and play the heroes we like. We like to NOT build a team by its efficiency but because we want to play such and such comic-book character. We want to have a heroclix game where everything is uncertain up till the last dice roll or so : those are the best match even if in the end we loose. We dislike optimization and we dislike power-gaming. We dislike the heroclix-game where the opponent has brought such a powerfull team that we only sit and watch him destroy us because there is no point in playing those match since we already know the outcome. We don't want to be "crushed" but we are okay with losing.
In my experience : People of your kind aren't okay with losing, you would probably do ANYTHING to win. Your goal is winning. Our goal is to have fun. For us "winning" has no meaning. Of course, we will try to "win" a match with the pieces we have brought, but it's not "winning" in the end that make the game fun, it's the fact of playing and not nowing what will happen next that makes it enjoyable for us.
Most of the people of your kind i've encountered can't even GRASP the concept.
They are so desperatly sure that winning your opponent by crushing him in the most inevitable way is the goal of every game on earth.
Like you say "some players will find those killer combos and it's something I thoroughly enjoy"
Yeah. Me and my kind don't enjoy killer combos, we enjoy playing with a little plastic guy called superman or cyclops and that's it.
Now there is NOTHING wrong with what you enjoy. And there is NOTHING wrong with what i enjoy. What i say is WE CAN'T play together. We are from different philosophies, almost as if it was different planets. We're doomed to conflict or boredom when we play against one another. On this point i'm quite sure a player like ME is as frustrating for a competitive gamer as a competitive gamer is frustrating for me. I'm not a worthy opponent for him and he is the culmination of UNFUN for me.
But what i ALSO SAY is that wizkids COULD make EVERYBODY happy by making the gap between meta-pieces and standard-pieces smaller, bringing back some balance into the game. Of course Heroclix has never been a completly balanced game, but at the beginning, it was slightly more balanced than right now. And Resources are not the first undercosted piece they come up with, but it's clearly the worst.
Now, i don't say my style of play is better than any other style. I just aknowledge that we are uncompatible from a game-point of view. And i'm very disapointed we can't simply understand our differences and avoid each others, while still enjoying playing the same game (not together) even if playing it DIFFERENTLY.
Sweeping generalizations are bad, generally speaking.
Trying to speak about an entire "group" of people as if they are all identical and will have the exact came mentality/behavior is probably a doomed endeavor. I think it would be much better and result in less ire towards your post if you avoided such broad generalizations. The use of "your kind" in particular makes it come across as a lot more harsh.
Quote : Originally Posted by Haven13
"Casuals" must be militant. It's the only way to preserve a venue where people all have similar (non-Meta) playstyles.
Once someone starts "upping the ante" it takes a force of will to NOT follow suit just to win some plastic. And then it takes everything from subtle hints to outright declarations to get someone to understand that they need to adapt to the established playstyle or find another venue.
I have my reservations about being called "casual" but I have no problem with the militant label.
Horse-pucky. See the previous comment regarding honey and vinegar.
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It can also be about delivery.
I, and my venue in general, start with subtle hints, and escalate from there. Sometimes this has been over a period of YEARS where we just can't get through to someone.
If a regular, who has been playing for years, and has either acclimated to the playstyle or has been commensurate with the playstyle for years shows up with, say, Iron Man/War Machine taxiing Forge around with them, I'm going to be painfully obvious and outright insulting. In this case, however, insulting amounts to saying, "I didn't know (name of Meta player we all couldn't stand) was making your teams for you these days." Others could take that as a compliment. I mean it as the most biting insult. But I'm doing it to hopefully get someone back in line. Do I care that I'll lose? No. Will I build to counter that the next week. No.
I think this is what several people on the other side of this fail to see. I don't want someone to change their playstyle so I can BEAT THEM. I want them to change their playstyle so that NO ONE at the venue sits down, sees their team, and thinks, "I might as well just get more snacks and let him play my part of the game for me."
1) I don't see anything wrong with that team.
2) I do think that your reaction to it, whether you like the team or not, is unnecessary. Lord knows I can be a smartass at times, but I can't see how it would possibly be better to start off with a snarky remark like that instead of just saying, "dude, I think you overshot with the competitiveness. Maybe try to tone it down next time?"
Quote : Originally Posted by Magnito
In other words, it's all Vlad's fault.
Quote : Originally Posted by Masenko
Though I'm pretty sure if we ever meet rl, you get a free junk shot on me.
Quote : Originally Posted by Thrumble Funk
Vlad is neither good nor evil. He is simply Legal.
I get that, I do, but stuff like that can happen. Sometimes people can get really nasty. True, it's easy to talk smack on the Internet to people, but that's not really what he was doing. He was talking in the hypothetical. That being said, there are people that will drop the hammer ( pun intended ) if you're just outright disrespectful. Everbody wants to be treated with respect, there are some people that simply will not accept anything less. It's something to consider when you're dealing with people.
This is the simple truth.
If you ask me in a nice manner "hey bro were a casual venue can you reel in the meta" sure no worries ill come here on occasion when im feeling theemy or for big meta (ig avx) tournaments.
But if your rude and to quote haven escalate it I'm damn sure gonna ESCALATE IT.
Because civility is already out of the question at that point.
And no, he didn't own me. He did have a couple good points, such as the generalization of "game", but I do feel he's saying it's ok to mock someone if you feel their team is uber-powered/broken/blah blah blah." I'm saying, it's not ok.
The venue in question was plagued by Meta players, eventually only one in particular, that ran off the guy who played Iron/Machine and Forge, and EVERYONE else. I'm not kidding. It took getting to the point where it was me, the judge, and the Meta guy, and the Meta guy said, "I wonder why no one but us comes anymore." The judge laughed derisively and said, "It's you!" I was appalled. Granted, everyone who left had been saying as much in many less direct manners. One guy refused to play against Meta guy if he got matched up with him and would just leave if that happened. I volunteered to take those games for him so that wouldn't happen. I thought the judge had been too harsh, but it was the moment when Meta guy realized that he had, indeed, run off 11 people in a couple of years.
So, yeah, when one of the guys who got ran off started going down the road of, "Well, I really wanted the prize tonight, so that justifies me changing the playstyle of the venue for my greed." I have absolutely no problem letting him know that I find it unacceptable when I've known him for years, he credits me with changing Meta Guy's playstyle and I feel I can deliver a scolding in a manner that he can accept. You don't know the people involved, you don't know the situation. But if you want to believe you are all morally superior and call me a "dink" or call my behavior "passive aggressive BS" or "mocking", then you go right ahead.
If I'd behaved in such a way, I would never have changed Meta Guy's attitude or playstyle and Clix wouldn't even be played at that venue anymore. Everybody, at the time, told me that I wasn't being harsh enough with Meta Guy and all of them did things that I found unacceptable. There are things I won't do in pursuit of a prize, and there are things I just won't do to other people because of basic decency. But if you can't read what I'm writing and give me the benefit of doubt to believe that I'd take people's feelings, and the good of the venue, into account before acting, then there's little I can do to make you see this for what it is.
I disagree with Haven owning Owlman, so much so that I'm wondering if it's an inside joke or sarcasm I'm not picking up on, lol.
Nope, dead serious. In all aspects but the one under discussion below, I think Haven argues more for something that I agree with, makes his points better, and takes more than himself into account. For that, I made the remark about him owning Owlman166. I mean, he doesn't literally own him, so I suppose there was some sarcasm there, but no more than was necessary so as not to condone slavery.
And regardless of your stance on "people's place" and "crossing lines" and again, "presentation," Haven13 is still presenting a reasonable POV.
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I think this was the KO shot personally. Haven comes across as saying, if you don't play the way I like then it's my job to belittle you or take passive-aggressive jabs until you play like me or leave. If Haven is a judge he shouldn't be insulting players and should instead sit down and have a talk. Leave the passive-aggressiveness to the high school kids and pull the player aside. If he's not the judge then I don't think it's his job to police the venue and he may be taking the "superhero" element of clix a bit far. I see people who like to build strong cost-effective teams as saying "all playstyles welcome, play the way you want and I won't judge you. Just do me the same curtsey" (yes there are always exceptions) but Haven is in essence saying "my way or the highway".
If you're going to ignore all the points along the way where other measures were implemented, then sure, Haven's in the wrong here.
But since we're not going to do that in this discussion, we'll see that Haven indicated that it's a measure of last resort, and only used when an individual continues to break social norms without concern for those who abide by them.
Agree with those norms or not, agree with his response or not, you're overplaying what was said.
Quote : Originally Posted by Char-Vell
I think we need a disinterested, third party adjudicator to settle the matter of Shaven13's and Owlnuts56247.
Have I weighed in on the controversy yet?
If so. allow me to re-iterate. or pull the pin on the social contract grenade...
Know your audience.
Check out a new venue before you play there, either by visiting are talking to some regulars.
Bringing casual fun teams to a meta-heavy venue or vice versa is like walking into a country/western bar and demanding to hear some Bolt Thrower on the jukebox.
Char has it here.
Quote : Originally Posted by lucernhammer
See thats rude and uncalled for you would accomplish your goal however I would not return to the venue and you and your "laid back casual boys " would be left alone after I told you to go f your self and some other choice words that I would strongly advise you to remain quiet about till I leave. Because contrary to popular belief both parties in a physical altercation usually get charged regardless of who throws the first punch I know from experience .
Not bad ass just old and crotchety with some dementia and a wife who will make my bail for me .if you wife cant make bail you cant be bad ass lmao
Quote : Originally Posted by Char-Vell
Haven did not mention putting his hands on anybody.
I find it cute when people start talking about "ass-whoopins" at a heroclix venue, on a heroclix forum.
And Char has is here as well.
Quote : Originally Posted by XRaptureX
I get that, I do, but stuff like that can happen. Sometimes people can get really nasty. True, it's easy to talk smack on the Internet to people, but that's not really what he was doing. He was talking in the hypothetical. That being said, there are people that will drop the hammer ( pun intended ) if you're just outright disrespectful. Everbody wants to be treated with respect, there are some people that simply will not accept anything less. It's something to consider when you're dealing with people.
You're absolutely right.
By that measure, the lone cheeser in a laid-back joint needs to be taught the error of his ways for his disrespect of his peers. Somebody needed to drop the hammer so to speak.
Quote : Originally Posted by DemonRS
Justify to me why this thread is necessary and I'll keep it open..
Quote : Originally Posted by Girathon
It pissed me off all weekend rorschachparadox wasn't dead.
Passive Aggressive behavior would be keying his car in the parking lot on the way out.
What I'm doing is assertive. As I said, I not only start with subtle hints and escalate from there, I also take the individual into account as well as past interactions with that individual. And, again, it's all about delivery.
Just because you dislike the idea doesn't mean you get to label it as "passive aggressive".
It's everyone's job to get other people back in line. It's how society works.
Kitty Genovese is an example of a bunch of people who didn't think it was there job to "get someone back in line." That's extreme, I'll grant you that. But humans are dictating behavior to each other in every interaction that they have. If you'd rather believe that you're free to do whatever you want, and that no one can tell you what to do, and you don't have to listen to them, or change your behavior for them, go right ahead and continue to think that. The reality is that you are already adapting your behavior based on signals people are sending, even subconsciously, since the moment you took your first breath.
Hell, you just tried to do it to me. Your use of "passive aggressive BS" was punishment for my description of my behavior. You think I should not behave in such a way and gave me feedback attempting to shape my behavior. All that my be subconscious to you, but it's there.
The difference is that I don't see you as anything other than another human being for doing it. I'm not taking umbrage for you doing exactly what you're supposed to do as a member of society and these forums, the place in which the two of us are interacting.
I disagree with a lot of this, but in particular the bold has confused the hell out of me. Where are you getting that anyone is doing that?
I swear, I must not even be reading the same thread as some of you...
Quote : Originally Posted by Magnito
In other words, it's all Vlad's fault.
Quote : Originally Posted by Masenko
Though I'm pretty sure if we ever meet rl, you get a free junk shot on me.
Quote : Originally Posted by Thrumble Funk
Vlad is neither good nor evil. He is simply Legal.
This is the simple truth. If you ask me in a nice manner "hey bro were a casual venue can you reel in the meta" sure no worries ill come here on occasion when im feeling theemy or for big meta (ig avx) tournaments.
But if your rude and to quote haven escalate it I'm damn sure gonna ESCALATE IT.
Because civility is already out of the question at that point.
Well here's some good news for you!
Haven said he did what you asked. Being as you ignored that part, looks like the only person breaking civility is you.
Quote : Originally Posted by Haven13
Indeed. Wait around. He'll turn on me before the thread is over.
Oddly, I just went all gung-ho in your defense.
Quote : Originally Posted by DemonRS
Justify to me why this thread is necessary and I'll keep it open..
Quote : Originally Posted by Girathon
It pissed me off all weekend rorschachparadox wasn't dead.
I guess your right. This falls into what I was talking about before though. What some people consider casual can be considered very competitive to other people and vice versa. Because it's something that is left up to interpretation finding a middle ground between players can be very difficult.
The wrong x man team can be uber meta
Nightcrawler prof x maybe a p5 is theemy meta atleast and I hate people who claim casual and then play hidden meta the worst of all its like grima wormtounge .
See thats rude and uncalled for you would accomplish your goal however I would not return to the venue and you and your "laid back casual boys " would be left alone after I told you to go f your self and some other choice words that I would strongly advise you to remain quiet about till I leave. Because contrary to popular belief both parties in a physical altercation usually get charged regardless of who throws the first punch I know from experience .
A physical altercation, much like HeroClix, involves both parties actively participating. If one party has no injuries and plenty of witnesses were present, only one person is getting charged.
I can take a beating to watch someone rot in jail and owe me every penny they've ever earned.
Did you, for all intents and purposes, just make a threat on HCRealms? Because it really seems that way.
Bolded is the parts that were ignored by those taking umbrage at Haven's approach. Underlined is the parts latched onto in their outrage.
To me, at least, this is fairly interesting.
Quote : Originally Posted by Haven13
It can also be about delivery.
I, and my venue in general, start with subtle hints, and escalate from there. Sometimes this has been over a period of YEARS where we just can't get through to someone.
If a regular, who has been playing for years, and has either acclimated to the playstyle or has been commensurate with the playstyle for years shows up with, say, Iron Man/War Machine taxiing Forge around with them, I'm going to be painfully obvious and outright insulting. In this case, however, insulting amounts to saying, "I didn't know (name of Meta player we all couldn't stand) was making your teams for you these days." Others could take that as a compliment. I mean it as the most biting insult. But I'm doing it to hopefully get someone back in line. Do I care that I'll lose? No. Will I build to counter that the next week. No.
I think this is what several people on the other side of this fail to see. I don't want someone to change their playstyle so I can BEAT THEM. I want them to change their playstyle so that NO ONE at the venue sits down, sees their team, and thinks, "I might as well just get more snacks and let him play my part of the game for me."
Quote : Originally Posted by DemonRS
Justify to me why this thread is necessary and I'll keep it open..
Quote : Originally Posted by Girathon
It pissed me off all weekend rorschachparadox wasn't dead.