There is NO WOMAN out of your league. NONE. PERIOD.

you just have to work in yourself and you will be perfectly fine without nobody once you know that you can have ANY woman you want. Women will chase You.

And Monday is abosolute awesome and out of ordinary because well, it's my Birthday!

Are you a man? Are you 40?!?

And Carlos, you are absolutely correct. You just gotta believe in yourself, more than anything else. Not always easy to practice what is preached, but it is what it is. Just keep your chin up Fredwood and charlesx!

If either of you ever need to vent/rant/chat, just let me know.

Much like animals can sense fear, women can sense desperation and self-loathing. And unlike men, women will avoid those characteristics in a mate. I had a buddy who went through a rough divorce and spent the first 6 months "practice dating" as he called it. He dated around getting back in touch with who he was and what he wanted out of life and a partner. Most of the dated during that time were depressing train wrecks. Once he figured himself out, and became more confident in what he wanted and what he was willing to tolerate, the dating scene vastly improved. Since then he's married a beautiful woman who some would consider out of his league. I'd disagree because I find that incredibly insulting to him. Not that she's not great, but he's just as great. Anyway, the whole point of what I'm saying is that once you fix yourself, a woman will sense that and scoop you up.

Happy birthday, Carlos! I hope that you celebrate to the max!!!

Happy happy, my man!

Happy Birthday, Carlos! And I hope that you don't celebrate to the max, because I don't want you to end up in prison!!!

Celebrating to the max means that you should have ended up in prison, but they could never catch you. They just sit there dumbfounded, thinking to themselves "who was that masked man?!?"

Happy Birthday Carlos.

Casting Couch is open. (http://www.hcrealms.com/forum/showthread.php?t=490086) I apologize for the weekend delay.

I'd like to point out that I didn't think she was out of my league ( if anything she was only slightly above my Mendoza line) and the fact that she went out with me and messed around a little means she didn't either. It was more playing a game and if I pressed the issue we would be going out again probably. She basically said she wasn't as excited as she'd like to be. So she wanted the chase and I just don't have time for that. Guess that's what I get for going out with someone 7 years younger.

It was a bad weekend is all, I don't think I reek of desperation or I self loathe all the time. I am taking a step back though, and focusing on other stuff. Dating is just annoying and can lead to bad things, and I did so much in a small amount of time I was overwhelmed. Though I probably will get someone to go see Middy with me.


Thanks for the help and story I'm in a better mindspace today, and part of that is because of the aide granted here.

Happy birthday Carlos.

Thank You Guys!!!

I'm getting ready for my 2 or more days of Celetration beginning... RIGHT NOW!

Fredwood everything will improve and be perfect with time, you will see!

Happy birthday 'Los.

And I concur, there's no such thing as 'out of your league' when we're talking dating.

Fredwood, look at the bright side, you whooped me down and eliminated me in the FF league.

Carlos, feliz cumpleaños!

Is that why I'm cold all the time? Sheesh. It feels like I have no circulatory system.

And if the "6-month practice dating" rule holds true, I think 9 practice girls is a pretty good clip. Honestly, the idea of dating someone (or being genuinely interested in) I didn't know beforehand is foreign. If I were you, I'd save those people who you're already acquainted with and could possibly be interested in until the "practice period" is over...that's when it counts.