I agree .... Mods please close this before it gets ugly. One round of this last month was enough.

I just wanted to say before this all blows up in my face that I didn't want to start anything with Benparry, I just wanted to make sure I hadn't been ripped or made a stupid mistake by trading with a ripper due to my inability to read anything. I trust Benparry and we have figured everything out. I had been ripped about a month ago by someone else on another forum (which is why I will trade only exclusivly here now) and was just making sure. Thank for all the help and I wish Benparry all the luck with his trades.

Due diligence rep to you sir.

Does anybody know this guy? I sent him payment three weeks ago for a fig and haven't gotten anything (fig or DC#). He doesn't respond to PM's even though he's been on the site.

I just want my money back at this point. I suggest staying away from him as far as trading goes. Are there any realmsers that know him in real life?

He lives in England. His stuff takes a little while to get over here. He should respond to your message though.

Thanks to the mod that merged my thread. Boy, I wish I had seen this a month ago.

Exactly. I think it's rather rude and disrespectful. There was no lack of communication when setting up the sale, but as soon as payment gets sent he goes silent. And I didn't know he was in England either. That's one of those things that could easily tell me to expect some shipping lag, but again he never communicated it.

Why cant you just leave me alone? It actually feels like you are looking for reasons to provoke me.

It does state clearly in my sale thread that I live and ship from the UK, but I dont get annoyed if people miss it. I should have been more prompt with responses though and have contacted the concerned party and apologised.

You're welcome.


I have deleted the posts by people that either can't read instructions, or chose to ignore me.

This is for complaints and info sharing, not flaming or arguing about the feedback system.

Second warning, if it happens again WP's will fly.

I'm handling this, if you let him pull you in to flaming you'll share in the WP's.

Apologies, I have edited the offending comment. I should count to 10 before posting!

Well, guess what showed up today? Ares!

I'm working on getting feedback reversed. Thanks for the fig, but highly doubt we'll trade again in the future.

I bought two chases from him for a reasonable price, I understood the extra time it would take to get to me, when I recieved the figs today I left him positive feedback and then boom.......again PM him just to ask for some positive feedback in return, he was online no response.......I feel I deserve the positive feedback sseing as I paid him within 2 minutes of sealing the deal.

Seeing someone is online does not mean they are at the computer looking at HCRealms. I leave my computer on all the time with 1 of the pages on the browser open to HCRealms, but I am not constantly monitoring the realms.

I agree NoGo but if they except your feedback then you know they are on the realms. His communication sucks

He did leave me the feedback. Just don't understand why he did not when he read mine.