Three CCC's for something like this.

Cool, Comfy, Classy.

If it's a dance thing, you are going to probably get sweaty.
I'd say Jeans on the looser side (No Skinny jeans),
Comfortable sneakers (Make sure they are clean before you go)
Graphic/ Plain T-Shirt with possibly a long sleeve button on top, unbuttoned.
If you have a short sleeve one, that would be better.

I would also say aim for darker colors, you don't want to sweat in white or hot pink.

what darkstone said

She wasn't there.

Her brother came, and said she wanted to come, but she had to work tonight (She is a horse trainer, and she had to entertain an out-of-town client who is looking to buy.....which was pretty much a 15 year old girl).

I said, "Okay, can you just ask her if it's okay to give me her number, or something?"

Apparently he can't. He doesn't want to get too involved, and he feels this is crossing the line. Which, much as I like the guy, is utter bull####. He also seems to think that asking a girl out over the phone is too impersonal and that I shouldn't do that.....which I would understand if she didn't live 30 minutes out of town. But she does, so I think that's bull####, too.

Anyways, there will be another opportunity next week, and he promised he'd just bite the bullet and get involved next week if that blows up, too.

I informed him that if he feels like having an "oops" moment and "accidentally" tells her that I'm interested in her and was asking for her number, that this was acceptable behavior, and he doesn't have to feel involved if he does. He said he would maybe do that.

At this point, I don't even have butterflies over it anymore. I'm annoyed enough right now that I'm rapidly losing interest.

From now on, Thawmus needs to ask women out on first contact, because bull#### like this keeps happening otherwise.

EDIT: And frankly, the only reason I'm still interested, is because it's not her fault her brother's too much of a ##### to just ask her if it's okay for Thawmus to have her number. I mean, I already have a pretty good idea what the answer would be, I'm pretty sure I know what that phone call would be like, and I'm pretty sure I'd have a date lined up for this weekend. So it upsets me that I actually have all of that confidence going on (which is a rarity), and it's being wasted on irritation.

I woke up at 9:30 tonight. Which was considerably later than I planned, but since I didn't fall asleep until after 1, and was awoken twice in the next few hours, really isn't that suprising.
That sucks. But it sounds like there will be more opportunities, so don't give up hope.

I'm not dancing, her dance company is.

Also, Thawmus, not there is better then she said no. It wasn't like it was a date and she didn't show up. Also some people might feel uncomfortable hooking their friend up with their sister. While it is okay to ask her out and date her he may feel uncomfortable if he tries to hook you up with her. Relax and remember there is always next week.

Dude, Thawmus, is she on Facebook? Just send her a message that you'd like to call her sometime, maybe hang out.

Also, obviously say you missed her tonight

...sorry, that was a bit rushed, had to put baby down. What I meant to convey was waiting another week will just frustrate you... And hey, maybe her. Facebook is the easiest way to just say hi, and nearly everyone is on it. It's not impersonal, it's the way of the world now.

She is selling 15 year old girls?
Isn't that illegal?

Because:

In other news: Personally I'm taking Thawmus' post positively. Sure, the meeting was a bust, but it seems that Thawmus has gotten over questioning himself, and is fully going after her, which is a good thing. And like Darq said, check Facebook.

If my trade with Pax falls through, I will be hitting you up, sir.

Attention men!

Please stop doing this. Please do not do this ever. It does not work, it does not make you look good. The 90s have been over for over a decade and it is time to move forward.

How do you feel about adding suspenders? Those are hip. Right, Sigdr?

I have one, and I'm selling him. I have all four Mutations and Monsters LEs that I'm selling.

I swear, I've been looking for that figure for forever and all of a sudden three people I talk to almost every day have one available. Life is messed up like that.

I was being sympathetic with you until you started blaming her brother. Honestly, it's not his job to play matchmaker. You like this girl, so you need to be the one to put forth the effort. If that means driving thirty minutes to get her number or ask her out, drive thirty minutes.

I know what it's like to lack confidence in one's self, so even if you have only a small amount, utilize it before it's gone. Go see her and be honest. Explain that you are interested in her and you've missed an opportunity that you would like to pursue. If she's free this weekend, offer to take her out someplace. If she's not free, ask if it would be possible to plan a date for next week.

The only person that should be blamed for a missed opportunity is you if you fail to seize that chance. Go for it, Thawmus. We're all rooting for you.