is the pushing from indom optional?? (sry bout lack of text phone...)

You can take pushing damage even if you have Indomitable, because Indomitable allows the character to use Willpower and Willpower says that you may ignore pushing damage. The "may" means that you don't have to ignore the pushing damage.

Yep, doesn't get much more official than the current printed rules:

The addition of that word made ignoring pushing damage optional.