Ok...

If DD attack Cyber Jar...then the Turn player wants to remove Cyber Jar...Does Cyber's effect still go through...I think it does but just want to make sure...

Yes Cyber Jars effect still goes through, DD Warrior Ladies effect doeS NOT negate Cybers effect

Similar ruling, but still applies with Cyber Jar and other FLIP: effects

When your "D.D. Warrior Lady" attacks your opponent's "Fiber Jar", if you activate her effect then "Fiber Jar" is Step 1 of the chain, because it is mandatory, and "D.D. Warrior Lady" is Step 2 of the chain because it is an optional effect. "D.D. Warrior Lady" removes from play both monsters, and then resolve the effect of "Fiber Jar". "D.D. Warrior Lady" and "Fiber Jar" are not shuffled into the Deck.